7 Steps to Leveraging Social Media for Your Business or Non-Profit

May 15th, 2009

7 steps to leveraging social media to bolster your good cause:

1. choose the platform position. are you passionate about a cause because of personal experience? these are often the most effective because you are more credible.

2. find a core nucleus of supporters who have personal stake or interest in your platform position. often these are people or families who have similar experiences.

3. start a blog. share your thoughts. let your passion come through.

4. find other blogs and sites relevant to your platform, visit those forums and generate awareness for what you’re trying to do.

5. taking a couple of steps back now. outline what you actually want to accomplish with your effort – what would success look like? where is your place in this bigger picture? are you the seed – generating awareness so that a bigger group effort can take over? do you want to be part of the bigger group effort? do you want to create a whole movement?

6. add social media/social networking sites to #3 and #4. get on twitter, join online social networks on ning.com or facebook.com or start your own group.

7. be disciplined. at the beginning you’ll need to spend time and effort growing your blog and readership, rallying support, increasing awareness.

Plurkaholics.com for social media, socia …

October 29th, 2008

Plurkaholics.com for social media, social networking, and microblogs. Plurkaholics.com is also an “unofficial site” for Plurk – for this I get a nice community badge in my plurk profile!

My Mental Health Source Page is my longe …

October 6th, 2008

My Mental Health Source Page is my longest running web project, when I started it in 1998 as a personal website. Since then, this site has evolved and grown into a trusted resource for the humanity behind depression and bipolar disorder.

Backstabbingcoworkers.com – DOMAIN FOR SALE

September 24th, 2008

Dealing with Backstabbing Coworkers? My Plurk friends and I share tips and advice to help you win the war against backstabbers.

You may just discover that what you believe to be a tangled mess of problems in your life is really a list of decisions you need to make about how you want to direct your life. Whenever you think you have a problem, Ask yourself, “Is what I have here Really A Problem, or A Decision that I need to make?”

September 22nd, 2008

You may just discover that what you believe to be a tangled mess of problems in your life is really a list of decisions you need to make about how you want to direct your life. Whenever you think you have a problem, Ask yourself, “Is what I have here Really A Problem, or A Decision that I need to make?”

Going with the flow doesn’t mean you've become lazy. It means you stop battling what is not even at war with you.

September 20th, 2008

Going with the flow doesn’t mean you’ve become lazy. It means you stop battling what is not even at war with you.

The worst prison is the one you have built for yourself. You know you hold the key to your freedom. You are accountable. You get to choose. So what are you waiting for?

September 20th, 2008

The worst prison is the one you have built for yourself. You know you hold the key to your freedom. You are accountable. You get to choose. So what are you waiting for?

In times like this, the most immediate thing to do is something nice for someone else. Connect with other people. Get a physical, visceral feel – a real human sense – of "you are not separate". You cannot do that alone, in your head. You need to DO something – put energy behind this vector!

September 20th, 2008

In times like this, the most immediate thing to do is something nice for someone else. Connect with other people. Get a physical, visceral feel – a real human sense – of “you are not separate”. You cannot do that alone, in your head. You need to DO something – put energy behind this vector!

When you can embrace the many ways things and people can exist and express themselves, you can embrace the many ways you can exist and express yourself.

September 20th, 2008

When you can embrace the many ways things and people can exist and express themselves, you can embrace the many ways you can exist and express yourself.

There is a delicate balance between how you do what you do and why you do what you do. Be aware of what – or more accurately, WHO – you stand to lose when you forget WHY you do what you do and only focus on 'the doing'.

September 17th, 2008

There is a delicate balance between how you do what you do and why you do what you do. Be aware of what – or more accurately, WHO – you stand to lose when you forget WHY you do what you do and only focus on ‘the doing’.

If you achieved a goal that leaves you no one to share your joy at the end, then your goal needs to be reexamined.

September 17th, 2008

If you achieved a goal that leaves you no one to share your joy at the end, then your goal needs to be reexamined.

Even as the past no longer touches you, does Fear hold you still? When you trade your Present and Future for a "safe place" in the past, open your eyes to the price you pay for this "safe place".

September 14th, 2008

Even as the past no longer touches you, does Fear hold you still? When you trade your Present and Future for a “safe place” in the past, open your eyes to the price you pay for this “safe place”.

Sublimation is a collection of writing I …

September 14th, 2008

Sublimation is a collection of writing I had done, mostly in the ’90s.

Many years ago I used to design websites …

September 14th, 2008

Many years ago I used to design websites and create web templates for fun. Here is a small sample of templates I’ve designed. The rest are gathering dust on my hard drive. If you have any ideas on how to generate grocery money with piles of photoshop files of these templates, please let me know.

Digital Media 2002 Series is a set of we …

September 14th, 2008

Digital Media 2002 Series is a set of web graphics I created with Adobe Photoshop.

My “Life in Visual” CSS’thetics 2003 …

September 14th, 2008

My “Life in Visual” CSS’thetics 2003 Series is an exercise in separating content and design. The same HTML source code is used to generate completely different looks by only changing the cascading style sheet file. Original photography is by my husband Cass based on our travels to Singapore and Hawaii.

When you are connecting with your passion, you feel like you had jumped HeadHeartAndAll into the thick of things… you feel excited – you feel alive! You see your unique footprint on the path so clearly, it is as if you are staring at your adventure right in the face.

September 9th, 2008

When you are connecting with your passion, you feel like you had jumped HeadHeartAndAll into the thick of things… you feel excited – you feel alive! You see your unique footprint on the path so clearly, it is as if you are staring at your adventure right in the face.

My series of 8 articles on the truth abo …

September 6th, 2008

My series of 8 articles on the truth about making money from blogs that starts with getting off on the wrong foot, “You Probably Will Not ‘Get Rich Quick’ with Problogging.”

ExoticJades.com is my dad’s website abo …

September 6th, 2008

ExoticJades.com is my dad’s website about antique Chinese jade artifacts. He has been collecting antique jade for many years and is looking to sell select items from his collection. If you see an item that you wish to purchase, please contact me.

DrinkFiber.com – DOMAIN FOR SALE

September 6th, 2008

DrinkFiber.com is a health website for digestive and gastrointestinal (GI – stomach, bowel) health, including reviews of fiber supplementation therapies and products.

Blogplates.com – DOMAIN FOR SALE

September 6th, 2008

Blogplates.com is a domain suitable for blog templates of any kind. I coined the term BLOG + temPLATES about 8 years ago when there was just Blogger! MAKE ME AN OFFER

BiotechMSL.com – DOMAIN FOR SALE

September 6th, 2008

Big Fish, Small Pond, and other rewards and challenges of a biotechnology medical science liaison (Biotech MSL).

Backtothenest.com – DOMAIN FOR SALE

September 6th, 2008

Emerging trends in today’s family, including “Sandwich Generation” (taking care of elderly parents as well as taking care of children under the same roof), “Boomerang kids”, “Twixters”, and “Peter Pan kids”.

AuthenticGenius.com – DOMAIN FOR SALE

September 6th, 2008

AuthenticGenius.com is my blog community for Dialogs Beyond the Integral, focusing on the Practical Evolution of Consciousness. If you want to share your personal stories of conscious evolution, please contact me for a free blog.

AuthenticGenius.com – DOMAIN FOR SALE

September 6th, 2008

Lewis Marshall is my featured blogger on A Patient’s Perspective, where he blogs about losing weight and reclaiming the body from an integrated health perspective and spiritual approach. If you want to share your personal perspective as a patient, please contact me for a free blog.

Secret # 5 From “10 Secrets of 7 Figure …

September 6th, 2008

Read my “10 Secrets” list at 7FigureWomen.com. If your individual net worth is at least US$1 Million or have liquid assets of at least US$500,000 and you want to be interviewed for my book about millionaire women, please contact me. You do not need to be based in the U.S., but you need to be a self-made millionaire.

It's great to start out with a clean slate, but beware of the "clean slate trap", when cleaning becomes a way to procrastinate from moving on.

September 5th, 2008

It’s great to start out with a clean slate, but beware of the “clean slate trap”, when cleaning becomes a way to procrastinate from moving on.

Immerse in the Experience, Not "Manage your Immersion" in the Experience.

September 5th, 2008

Immerse in the Experience, Not “Manage your Immersion” in the Experience.

It takes Time to Loosen This Plaque of Mental Tartar Upon Your Consciousness.

September 5th, 2008

It takes Time to Loosen This Plaque of Mental Tartar Upon Your Consciousness.

Your Talents are instruments that you are given the responsibility to use. Your Talents are the kind of Gift that is meant to be Shared. A Talent is a Gift that Wants to Keep Giving.

September 5th, 2008

Your Talents are instruments that you are given the responsibility to use. Your Talents are the kind of Gift that is meant to be Shared. A Talent is a Gift that Wants to Keep Giving.

Life is not found in a series of compartments and caches, just like a living cell does not live by simply possessing a series of organelles and vacuoles. What makes a living cell Live is everything that happens between a cell's organelles and vacuoles. What makes life Life is everything that happens between compartments and caches.

September 5th, 2008

Life is not found in a series of compartments and caches, just like a living cell does not live by simply possessing a series of organelles and vacuoles. What makes a living cell Live is everything that happens between a cell’s organelles and vacuoles. What makes life Life is everything that happens between compartments and caches.

Letting go is not a favor you give someone else, but a Gift of Generosity and Re-Generation to yourself, for now you can move to a new field of Creative Possibilities.

September 5th, 2008

Letting go is not a favor you give someone else, but a Gift of Generosity and Re-Generation to yourself, for now you can move to a new field of Creative Possibilities.

When you face your obstacle, your task is to figure out what the True Lesson is: to be creative in overcoming this obstacle, or to become wise and remove yourself from circumstances that keep presenting you with obstacles in the first place.

September 5th, 2008

When you face your obstacle, your task is to figure out what the True Lesson is: to be creative in overcoming this obstacle, or to become wise and remove yourself from circumstances that keep presenting you with obstacles in the first place.

Just because you've become an expert at turning lemons into lemonade doesn't mean you need to keep sucking on bushels of lemons. For even the weakest acid will corrode the strongest enamel of the teeth in an indiscriminate mouth.

September 5th, 2008

Just because you’ve become an expert at turning lemons into lemonade doesn’t mean you need to keep sucking on bushels of lemons. For even the weakest acid will corrode the strongest enamel of the teeth in an indiscriminate mouth.

Try it: a quiet mind feels quite good, actually.

September 5th, 2008

Try it: a quiet mind feels quite good, actually.

Once you begin to experience Certainty Within, you become OK with Uncertainty everywhere else.

September 5th, 2008

Once you begin to experience Certainty Within, you become OK with Uncertainty everywhere else.

What really happens when you unlock your heart is you come to yourself more intimately than you ever did, and you will come to recognize – and fall in love with That You Are.

September 5th, 2008

What really happens when you unlock your heart is you come to yourself more intimately than you ever did, and you will come to recognize – and fall in love with That You Are.

As quickly as you project your ego – an illusion – onto another, you project the same illusion onto your Self, and obscure That You Are.

September 5th, 2008

As quickly as you project your ego – an illusion – onto another, you project the same illusion onto your Self, and obscure That You Are.

To inspire from where you are, you must reconnect with who you once were. Take us back there. Let us in on who you were and where you were. Strip away your defenses and you will come through even stronger than you have ever been.

September 5th, 2008

To inspire from where you are, you must reconnect with who you once were. Take us back there. Let us in on who you were and where you were. Strip away your defenses and you will come through even stronger than you have ever been.

Being an inspiration is simply about opening a door to your heart to allow others to enter and find your special gift for each person.

September 5th, 2008

Being an inspiration is simply about opening a door to your heart to allow others to enter and find your special gift for each person.

You can only look into the heart of one person at a time, and when you do, you can see the vibrant colors that make up the life we are.

September 5th, 2008

You can only look into the heart of one person at a time, and when you do, you can see the vibrant colors that make up the life we are.

Every time you put yourself out there in the Earthly Sea, you may get many nibbles. You can only "catch" one person at a time. The one you "catch" is the one that matters the most.

September 5th, 2008

Every time you put yourself out there in the Earthly Sea, you may get many nibbles. You can only “catch” one person at a time. The one you “catch” is the one that matters the most.

There is no end to the flavors, colors, shapes, and sizes of other people's approval. But you will find, too quickly, that the flavors decay, the colors dull, the shapes dissolve, and the sizes distort.

September 5th, 2008

There is no end to the flavors, colors, shapes, and sizes of other people’s approval. But you will find, too quickly, that the flavors decay, the colors dull, the shapes dissolve, and the sizes distort.

If you remain addicted to approval, you yearn for someone else to give you a little gold sticker. Look with the eyes of your heart and you will see the Stars that already burn brightly within you.

September 5th, 2008

If you remain addicted to approval, you yearn for someone else to give you a little gold sticker. Look with the eyes of your heart and you will see the Stars that already burn brightly within you.

The moment you made the decision to change, you are already a different person. The question now becomes, "What will you do as the person You Now Are?"

September 5th, 2008

The moment you made the decision to change, you are already a different person. The question now becomes, “What will you do as the person You Now Are?”

Enjoy the Extraordinary in this ordinary day. There is nothing for you to analyze.

September 5th, 2008

Enjoy the Extraordinary in this ordinary day. There is nothing for you to analyze.

Empty your mind chatter and Empty your judgment and, instead, allow the Wisdom Within to fill you.

September 5th, 2008

Empty your mind chatter and Empty your judgment and, instead, allow the Wisdom Within to fill you.

Open your eyes and see all the love The Divine has sent into your life.

September 5th, 2008

Open your eyes and see all the love The Divine has sent into your life. [Week 19, WhatILovetodo.com]

Let the flames of your Inner Wisdom melt away the falseness you have learned about who you really are.

September 5th, 2008

Let the flames of your Inner Wisdom melt away the falseness you have learned about who you really are. [week 19, WhatILovetodo.com]

However you reconnect or remember it, Play and Have Fun.

September 5th, 2008

However you reconnect or remember it, Play and Have Fun. (?)

Has the pendulum swung too far to the other extreme?

September 5th, 2008

Has the pendulum swung too far to the other extreme? (?)

Even before you become full, you thirst to share what is filling up within you, and you have absolutely no fear that you would ever run empty.

September 5th, 2008

Even before you become full, you thirst to share what is filling up within you, and you have absolutely no fear that you would ever run empty. (?)

When you are "doing the right thing", you Work From Your Center.

September 5th, 2008

When you are “doing the right thing”, you Work From Your Center. (?)

False gurus and teachers have shown up in your life to teach you that enlightenment does not come from them (even if they didn't intend this to be the lesson). Experiencing falsehood ignites your hunger for Truth Within.

September 5th, 2008

False gurus and teachers have shown up in your life to teach you that enlightenment does not come from them (even if they didn’t intend this to be the lesson). Experiencing falsehood ignites your hunger for Truth Within.

Reconnect with Your Inner Wisdom, and you will find your way home.

September 5th, 2008

Reconnect with Your Inner Wisdom, and you will find your way home. (?)

Give credit when credit's due. Take credit when credit's due you. Integrity Requires Honoring True Ownership.

September 5th, 2008

Give credit when credit’s due. Take credit when credit’s due you. Integrity Requires Honoring True Ownership. (?)

When you are not "doing the right thing", you work from the periphery and find yourself feeling empty, in need of a refill.

September 5th, 2008

When you are not “doing the right thing”, you work from the periphery and find yourself feeling empty, in need of a refill. (?)

PLAY. …And if you have forgotten, Play is supposed to be FUN.

September 5th, 2008

PLAY. …And if you have forgotten, Play is supposed to be FUN. (?)

Free up your mental energy from worry about what "it" means. Choose your own meaning. Then spend your energy doing something about it.

September 5th, 2008

Free up your mental energy from worry about what “it” means. Choose your own meaning. Then spend your energy doing something about it. (?)

Life is not a thought experiment! Whatever it is: Stop thinking about it, dreaming about it, or fantasizing about it. Get out there. Make it real.

September 5th, 2008

Life is not a thought experiment! Whatever it is: Stop thinking about it, dreaming about it, or fantasizing about it. Get out there. Make it real. (?)

Your recent physical symptoms are signs from your body, reminding you that you don't need to choose between your head or your heart: it is about a Happy Blending of the Head and Heart.

September 5th, 2008

Your recent physical symptoms are signs from your body, reminding you that you don’t need to choose between your head or your heart: it is about a Happy Blending of the Head and Heart. (?)

How to Get Rich Quick Blogging

July 22nd, 2008

Let’s immediately get off on the wrong foot:

You Probably Will Not “Get Rich Quick” with Problogging.

Of course, this all depends on how you define “rich” and “quick.”

If you haven’t defined what these terms mean for you, now is a good time to answer these questions.

“For me, a ‘rich’ amount of money is at least $ _______ in _______ (what form?).”

“‘Quick’ means I spend at most ________ (amount of time) earning the above amount.”

Here are a couple of examples:

“For me, a ‘rich’ amount of money is at least $2.5 million in total net worth.”

“‘Quick’ means I spend at most 5 years earning at least $2.5 million.”

or,

“For me, a ‘rich’ amount of money is at least $10,000 cash income in the bank per month.”

“‘Quick’ means I spend at most 2 years earning at least $10,000 cash income per month.”

Once you define your answers, you may want to ask if blogging is a viable approach to achieve your goals.

How would blogging for money compare to other “traditional” forms of generating income?

For example:

  • Getting a second job
  • Going back to school to learn a marketable skill
  • Aiming for a promotion in your current job
  • Getting a new, higher paying job
  • Changing you career
  • Starting your own business

The truth is, blogging for money is not unlike getting a second job, investing resources to learn how to blog for money, and starting your own business.

How Much Money Can My Blog Make?

July 21st, 2008

A first question you may ask about starting any business – including a full time or part time blog based business – is, “How much money will I make?” You’re going to see the answer coming: “It depends.” It depends, and not always only on website traffic.

My opinion is that sustained viability of a revenue-generating blog depends entirely on content. This is a strong statement, and I will expand on this rationale in a separate post.

How to Make 19 Cents

“For every cash building blogger there’s a Jane Chin (www.janechin.com), who reports earning 19 cents in the initial months of her blogging “experiment” (her word).” David Garrett wrote in his “Can Problogging Build your Bottom Line?” in November 2006 issue of Certification Magazine.

David was referring to a post I had written in March of 2006 when I participated in a “network blog” as a contributing blogger. David’s article is important because it helps people know that problogging isn’t as easy as people seem to think it is.

I do want to clarify that 19 cents actually came from my participation on the online “blogging network”. Given that was the first month’s performance on a new “channel” at a new network blog portal, I was disappointed but not surprised.

Perhaps I’d have done better if I stuck it out, writing short cancer commentaries for the blogging network. But I only go for quotas that I set for myself. I blog every day, but not in the same blog, and certainly not only in one subject. I joined knowing full well that it would be a test run. I also made this clear to the channel editor who recruited me. When I quit after a month, neither of us was surprised.

I did much better on my own blogs – free of any network blogging affiliation, and actually now earn over $500 a month on my own blogs, and blogging part time. Blogging is something I already enjoy, but I’m still looking at the viability of the “earning” of problogging.

How My Blogs Began to Earn $500/Month

I started putting contextual ads on 10 of my websites in May of 2006. Two of these sites are true “blogs” that are periodically updated, even though the other sites use a blogging backend (Wordpress). I don’t consider any of these “high traffic.” In fact, I’d be happy if I get 50 unique hits a day. I purposely created my sites in narrow (”niche”) topical content areas.

When I first put up ad codes on these websites in May 2006, the sites earned about $80 that first month. As of December 1, 2006, my blogs and sites (now over 40 sites) was earning over $700 a month. The graph used to make this website’s title graphic comes from actual numbers I ran on my websites that display text ads, as well as affiliate sales and paid reviews.

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This graph represents the first 7 months of monetizing websites and blogs, and doing this on a part-time or semi-professional basis.

Probloggers Warn Blogging Won’t Get You Rich Quick

Popular problogging website Problogger.net has a post about how much money a blog may earn. Darren Rouse is quick to point out that problogging is not a get rich quick scheme, and even as he claims to have purchased a house from Google Adsense earnings, he emphasizes that his blogging income comes from at least 20 blogs. Now that Darren and colleagues have founded a network blog company called b5media, I am sure that Darren makes a very comfortable 6-figure income as a true professional blogger or problogger.

I’m more impressed with Steve Pavlina, who claims to make over $1000 a day from his personal development website, because this is earnings based on one blog. Steve has written an extremely long, 7000+ word article on monetizing his blog. The earnings result he reported on his blog is after 2 years of his site coming online.

Citations
How much money can a blog earn?

Problogging is not a get rich quick scheme

How to make money from your blog

What I use on almost all of my blogs: Wordpress

Do Ads Cheapen Your Blogs?

July 20th, 2008

You can monetize all kinds of blogs. Whether you do monetize a blog, and how you monetize your blog, depends on your comfort level with displaying ad codes on your websites. This get us into the “psychology of blogging.”

There are bloggers who are very uncomfortable displaying advertisements on their blogs.

These bloggers come from one or more of these positions:

  • They are already making a lot of money elsewhere
  • They view monetizing blogs as “selling out” or degrading the quality of their work
  • They don’t see a need or interest in monetizing their blogs
  • They are concerned about annoying blog visitors with ads

These are all very legitimate reasons.

I don’t have a problem with blogs that remain staunchly ad-free, or with blogs that are clearly formatted to generate revenue for the blogger. I do have a problem with people who openly criticize all who monetize blogs because they chose not do to so. A popular marketing consultant thumbs his nose at ad-displaying blogs, yet uses his blog to promote all of his books. He gets away with it because he is linked throughout the blogosphere, and makes a lot of money from books and speaking engagements. Monetizing his blog would end up diluting his book-marketing efforts – not to mention display of competitive ads on his website.

Just because monetizing blogs isn’t his strategy doesn’t mean you need to buy into the idea that monetizing your blog somehow “cheapens” your content. When I’m adding value to the blogosphere, I expect to add value to my life as well. I don’t need to apologize for or feel bad about getting a return for my laborious time and resource investment to share information.

Blogs can be a nice source of supplemental income for many of us.

I started monetizing my blogs for a practical purpose: I wanted enough to cover our monthly utilities. If my blogs generated at least enough to cover our gas, electricity, water, and telephone expenses, I can free up that part of my mind for other creative pursuits.

Whether you choose to make money from your blogs – or through any other means – should be entirely up to your own motivation. If you already love to write and blog, then putting ad codes on your website will not bother most people. We are already used to seeing ads on most websites.

What about the notion that putting ads on your blog degrades the quality of your blog?

Here’s the cold truth: the quality of your blog deteriorates when you publish crap content, not only because you’ve put up an ad on your blog.

If you deduce that monetizing your blog with ads had eroded your site traffic, then you want to examine all the potential causes of this happening.

Is your content lukewarm to begin with, and your ads have increased the readability barrier of your posts?

Are your ads so intrusive that readers click off because it takes too long to get to your content? (I’ve done this for major news content websites that force me to wait through video ads)

Are your ads so confusing that readers leave because they are confused by how to get to your content?

The concern about “annoying visitors” with ads is valid; some text ads are less intrusive than others. I find pop-up ads or ads that take up entire pages and ads that prompt you to “click here to skip this ad” the most annoying. This is why you won’t see me choosing AdBrite’s “interstitial ad” option: interstitial ads are splashed across the entire site before readers can access content.

The bottom line:Don’t apologize about how you choose to generate value for yourself from sharing value with the rest of the world. While we’re at it, stop hanging out with people who make you feel bad about asking for value when you give value.

Stay Away from Splogging and Fake Blogs

July 19th, 2008

When monetization of blogs began proliferating all over the web, many people decided that they could cash in on fake blogs.

Splogs are blogs that have fake content and even stolen content.

I know, because I’ve seen some of my blog posts copied and pasted on splogs. Of course, there’s usually no contact information to be found for me to ask that my content be removed.

Why do splogs exist? To make money from Adsense. I’m specifying Adsense since most other text-link ad providers have some type of selection criteria to accept a blog within their publishers’ network. Only some of my blogs get accepted to these text-link ad providers, but all of my blogs can run Adsense within minutes.

When you decide to make money from blogging, you have to make a few decisions that can shape the direction of your blogging:

The first decision, of course, is that you want to make money from blogging. You may want to blog full time, or in my case, part time.

The second decision is what you’ll be writing about, which you probably already have an idea before you even read this article. A corollary to this second decision is how often you need to write. Posting frequency is more about your blogging strategy than just “getting a lot of traffic” and I’ll cover this in another article.

The third decision is how many blogs you want to write. This will affect your posting frequency for each blog.

Many people prefer to dedicate themselves to writing one blog, and really invest themselves in cultivating this one blog. This is a good decision. A few people may choose to write multiple blogs. Multiblog bloggers may want to increase their chances of making money across more than one website or because they have many interests they want to write about.

I am a “multiblog blogger.” I chose to be a multiblog blogger because I have some interest in many things. If I only kept one or two blogs, I may be blogging “off topic” too often. If I started writing about healthcare issues on a website where my readers came to read about careers, success, and life purpose – well – they’ll get annoyed very soon.

There are at least two dangers of being a multiblog blogger.

Danger #1: You can dilute your efforts across too many blogs.

You may not get enough critical mass built for any one of your list of blogs unless you offer something unique enough on each to keep visitors coming back. I definitely run into this danger, because my interests may change, and because I tend to write long articles that are time-consuming. If you do a quick count of my blog list, you’re only seeing a fraction of the domains I’ve actually developed. I’m still deciding what I’d do with the other hundred domain names.

Danger #2: You may end up creating splogs.

Let’s say one of your blogs do well in generating ad revenues, and you say, “this is a good thing, why not make more of it?” Here is where splogs can happen, although most of the time bona fide bloggers don’t deliberately create splogs. Most splogs come from people who don’t care about sharing valuable information at all – only about replicating websites and falsely bloat up their rankings on search engines.

The truth is splogs have become big business in further enabling splogs. There are individuals who want to sell you “Adsense Templates” that come supplied with generic articles so you can get a splog – or ten – running in minutes. A newsletter that I subscribe to recently had an “affiliate advertisement” on some free templates available. I downloaded four over the weekend, uploaded them, and assigned an Adsense code to them to see how well they’d do. So far (and almost one year later), nothing. Zero. $0.00 Earnings! This means if I had paid this company money to gain access to more of their templates, I’d be making multiples of zero dollars. Maybe the real money to be made here is selling YOU pre-made Adsense templates.

If you’re even reading this article, chances are you have a genuine interest in value exchange. You have valuable information you want to share, and you would like to generate some revenue in exchange for your value creation. Splogs may stick around, but visitors are smart enough to click off a fake blog site, and it may be a matter of time before value run out for fake bloggers.

Related: UK Guardian talks about cashing in on fake blogs.

All Good Domain Names Are Gone

July 18th, 2008

If you are looking to earn money with your blog, I would say domain names are important, but not as important as domains have been made out to be.

If you’ve been blogging under a “vanity domain name” – that is – your own name as the domain name, you may wonder if you should register a more descriptive domain name.

The problem is, all the “good” domain names may have been taken, so you’ve read or been told.

Now, when I register for a new domain name, I almost always expect it to be taken. That a domain name was not yet taken is a bigger surprise to me than if it was.

Getting good domain names used to be about timing. You’re gambling on someone else not thinking up the name you planned to use. I’m not surprised that domainologist Dennis Forbes used the word “bubble” to describe the emerging domaining business.

Many domainers see domains as virtual real estate, and are getting into the domaining business hoping to make a quick buck flipping the domain real estate. Some veterans have made millions in the domaining game. My brother had recently entered the domaining business, and spoke of buying tens of thousands of domains the same way a commercial real estate investor talked about purchasing investment properties.

Way back in the mid-1990s I really wanted to get my name as a vanity domain (www.jane.com – I’d link to this but the link doesn’t go to a live website). Unfortunately I was a few months too late; that domain is booked through year 2012, and I suspect, beyond. That was when registering domains cost over $100. Happily, I did get my full name domain (www.janechin.com), which I currently use for one of my blogs.

With domain names becoming a commodity, registering domains now costs less than $10 per year. The intellectual property behind this commodity is what is giving domain names their value. Sure, snappy domains may have all been taken, and some are parked as nothing more than a page of ads.

I believe, as Dennis Forbes believes, that snappy domain names have been helpful, but the value would not ride high forever. Shorter domain names will yield to descriptive domain names. This means combinations of phrases will be just as valuable, and even still available.

Technology will also help equalize the power that domain names can hold over your blogs. If a reader comes upon your blog and becomes intrigued by what you write, he or she can simply subscribe to your blog and access it from a feed reader, instead of having to remember your domain name or bookmarking it to revisit. Right now I use Google Reader and subscribe to the blogs that I visit regularly. I access all the feeds on one page.

We still have room for registering some catchy phrases. Some of the descriptive domain names I’ve registered:

A Patient’s Perspective
Live Your Inspiration
Backstabbing Coworkers
Back to the Nest
Drink Fiber
Targeting Tumors
Lip Couture

You can already get an idea of the theme or focus of the content based on the descriptive domain name.

Here’s to your creative mind to nabbing your desired domain names!

Citations
Have all the good domain names been taken?

Beyond Adsense – Part 1 of 2

July 17th, 2008

Up Front Disclosure: I’m using referral links to discuss the products in this entry, since I have personal experience using each of them and can therefore speak intelligently to the pros and cons. If you want to sign up for any of these products, I appreciate you using the referral link, and I may get credit for it :-)

I love Adsense because it’s contextual, which means Google tailors the served as based on your blog content. It’s as simple as “copying and pasting”.

901638393131183.gif But let’s face it – Adsense does not perform for everybody, and over time you may get “Adsense Poop Out”, as I’ve seen on my blogs. What I mean by “Adsense Poop Out” is that your Adsense earnings begin to wane over time. Maybe my readers have gotten used to the ads and have become blind to them. Maybe Google’s ever-changing algorithms have made it more difficult for blogs to earn at the same level as before. Maybe my websites aren’t as optimally configured to earn as they should be.

Whatever the reason, I’ve been looking at other ways to monetize my websites beyond Google Adsense. In this two-part article series, I’ll share with you ways I’ve found useful to additionally monetize blogs and you may find that these can work well for you.

Text Link Ads (TLA)
TLA TLA has worked well for me, and can be a good source of text-link based income for you – provided that your blog / website gets accepted. It automatically calculates the rate of advertising based on your blog’s popularity, and splits the ad fee 50/50 with you. If someone buys a $20 link on your website, you get $10 and TLA gets $10.

Pros Minimal administration, passive, multiple blogs per account.

Cons Maybe tough to get site approved if your site is too new or does not have enough content.

ReviewMe (RM) (No Referral Link; Donate to Jane’s Tip Jar)
I admit, when RM first came out, I thought it was a great way to earn extra revenue by doing something I was already doing anyway (blogging). I learned of RM through TLA – the two companies are probably related – signed up immediately, and added my maximum allowable limit of 6 blogs/account. I was quite active for the first couple of months, and earned almost $500… then I realized how much work writing reviews was. Of course, you can just do the 200 word “minimum”, but I spend time visiting the websites, composing my review, and aim to write constructively and objectively. Translation: lots of time spent for a small return than the value of my time was worth. RM, like TLA splits revenue with you 50/50.

Pros Minimal administration, paid review, multiple blogs per account, set your own pricing.

Cons Maybe tough to get site approved, 6 site maximum/account, more work than I intended to earn a couple of hundred bucks a month, have to wait for review opportunity otherwise sign up for cheapo $5 review opportunities (not worth the time in my opinion).

AdBrite
AdBrite is a bit like Google Adsense in that you sign up for an account, create “ad zones” for your websites, and insert the code into your web pages. You can even set your own pricing and use their smart revenue tool to insert Google Adsense instead of Adbrite if the Adsense ad paid more. However, I haven’t really seen good performance from Adbrite as I’ve seen from Adsense, and creating and updating those ad zones are a pain in the butt.

Pros Multiple blogs per account, set your pricing, set payment threshold (unlike Google you don’t need to earn over a certain $ to get paid).

Cons Ad zones a pain to set up and update, earning performance less stellar than Adsense (at least in my case).

If you’ve used these services, please let me know your experiences.

Beyond Adsense – Part 2 of 2

July 16th, 2008

Up Front Disclosure: I’m using referral links to discuss the products in this entry, since I have personal experience using each of them and can therefore speak intelligently to the pros and cons. If you want to sign up for any of these products, I appreciate you using the referral link, and I may get credit for it :-)

This is a continuation of my previous article to look beyond Adsense ads to supplement your blog revenue. In the first article, I looked at Text-Link Ads, ReviewMe, and Adbrite. In this article, I’ll be covering Widgetbucks and AuctionAds. I have a private invite to ShoppingAds but at this time it’s too soon to tell the results with ShoppingAds.

WidgetBucks
Earn $$ with WidgetBucks! You get a $25 sign-on bonus with WidgetBucks, so at least for the first month you’re guaranteed $25. That said, your site needs to generate a total of $50 or more to get paid. Payment terms are 45 days from meeting accrual requirement of $50, like Adbrite, which I find too long: would any of the folks running these site agree to wait 45 days to get their paycheck, or wait 45 days for their advertisers to fork over the money? I think not. At least AdBrite doesn’t have a minimum payment amount.

Pros Minimal administration, passive, multiple blogs per account.

Cons Not as many ad layout options as Adsense, Adbrite, or AuctionAds. Long payment terms (45 days) with high minimum payment ($50 minimum). Product selection seems limited.

AuctionAds
AuctionAds did well for me on one of my high traffic sites, but only for the first few months. Afterwards, site readers seemed to experience “Auction Fatigue” and I saw revenue drop significantly past the first few months even when the ad placements and keywords remained the same. I also suspect that keyword selection has something to do with it, since your readers won’t click through to bid if they aren’t interested in the items displayed. There is a $50 minimum for payout, but at least you get paid directly through your payment account and there’s no 45 day wait.

Pros Minimal administration, passive, multiple blogs per account. Immediate payment via Paypal account if meets minimum accrual of $50.

Cons . High minimum payment ($50 minimum). Auction keyword targeting may affect display result and therefore click-through rates by readership. Readers may experience auction ad fatigue similar to google adsense text ad fatigue and become blind to the ads.

Conclusion
At the time of this writing I’m almost exclusively using Text-Link Ads and Google Adsense for my content-heavy blogs that are focused on niche topics. I reserve Widgetbucks for a small handful (3) of my blogs, and AuctionAds for one highly-trafficked website (not a blog). I keep a small AuctionAd on this blog, but it’s more for experimentation than revenue generation.

Recently I was asked by a business-oriented social networking site to serve as an expert commentator, and by posting every other day (on average, and the posts need not be long at all), I was paid $500. That’s been a reasonable deal for my time, so I’ll continue to do this as long as they continue or increase the compensation rate.

Monetizing Blogs One Year Later

July 15th, 2008

Here’s our blog-based revenues from January 2007 through September 2007: $13,871.69.

This earning includes revenues from:

  • Google Adsense
  • Text-Link Ads
  • AdBrite Text Ads
  • ReviewMe Review Payouts
  • AuctionAds
  • Affiliate Sales
  • Direct Website Sponsorship

I’m not discounting this earning. When we first started allowing text ads on our websites and blogs, our ambition was to earn at least $500 per month to cover the utility bill and basic domain registration/hosting fees. We’ve met this goal. Our new aim is to cover the mortgage. Considering that we live in Southern California and bought our house during a seller’s market, you can guess that the mortgage is not insignificant.

From Utility Bills to the Mortgage

In light of our new aim, my blogging strategy needs to change. I’m still figuring out what my strategy needs to be to meet the trends I observed from our own websites. Based on the general trends of blogging for money over this past year, I think many of you bloggers out there may want to remain vigilant on your blogging revenue and blogging strategy.

Unless you are one of the group of known bloggers who have already gained an audience or you are already famous and blogging is just a way to sell your books or speaking engagements – you have way more competition than ever before.

You are competing with people who are willing to earn the minimum wage, where they spend up to an hour writing a review for less than $10. (i.e. Pay Per View or ReviewMe or LoudLaunch)

You are competing with people whose tactic is earn-by-volume, and they can buy 100 domain names pre-populated with ad templates and stock articles. (i.e. splogs or fake blogs)

Why Blogging Revenues Are Hard to Make

When a website format or category appears successful, it becomes saturated very quickly. People start copying the website idea with similar content articles and even similar blog appearance. Separating wheat from chaff is not difficult, but it drains time. I find myself tuning into how I “feel” about a website content within seconds of looking at the material, and assess whether there is an original thought behind the writing. Blog readers have learned this, as well. Sometimes it doesn’t feel like a blogger cares very much about the writing itself, only that it needed to be written so that the blog smells fresh. Other times a blogger has taken an idea seen elsewhere and duplicated it, with a paraphrase here or a new example there.

It is in this vein that I’m examining why I blog, and if blogging is part of your long term revenue strategy, you will want to periodically reassess why you blog.

I have given enough time in this blogging experiment to know where my preferences are, including how I want to earn money. Truthfully, blogging can only be a minuscule supplement to my household income, for what feels like a heck of a lot of work.

I think blogging as self expression is a great idea, and one I’ve come to love and will continue to use for years to come. I also would rather have too many blogs to choose from than not enough blogs to wade through. For the time being, I’ve got many other interests (comedy improv, public speaking, integral philosophy, art) in addition to my businesses competing for my time, and I prefer to spend my time experiencing and enjoying life – not blogging for blogging’s sake.

“Mr. Mom, Senior”? Grandfathers Get Spotlight as Grandparents Now Raising Kids

June 9th, 2008

Wall Street Journals, “Mr. Moms Grow Up: A New Generation Of Granddads Is Helping Raise the Kids” (subscription, June 8, 2006; Page D1) have become “Mr. Grandmom.”

We may be seeing a new lifestyle trend of baby boomers, as more grandfathers are becoming active in their grandchildren’s lives. They certainly bring a level of wisdom that grandchildren today (and probably many adult children) can benefit.

The article also suggests that grandfathers may play a critical role for children raised in fatherless homes, although I’m not sure I agree with the psychologist’s view that grandfathers are “more influential” than grandmothers because grandmothers do the same things moms do. If we live in a society where the mother is more frequently absent, then the psychologist probably would say the same of grandfathers providing redundant services to fathers. This is more a case of which parent is more frequently absent than which grandparent provides redundant services.

20-Something Writer Works Out of Parents’ Home and Finds Loneliness and Privacy Challenges

June 8th, 2008

Startup Journal profiled a 20-something editor and writer who worked out of her parents’ home.

Allison said that her home office at her parents’ home was “virtually nonexistent” and she had to get by with whatever space and tools she had available. Working from home also gave her freedom that office workers would not have, such as own hours and working in pajamas.

However, there were also challenges. Allison felt lonely because she had no regular interactions with coworkers. She also didn’t have someone to bounce ideas with and get feedback from. As with all entrepreneurs working from a home-based office or in a home-based business, Allison had to manage time and distractions, and because Allison was living with her parents, privacy could be an issue. Allison will be getting married soon and looks forward to having her own home-based office in her own home. Read about Allison.

10 Disastrous Mistakes Parents Make When Their Adult Child Moves Back Home

June 8th, 2008

Contributed by Back to the Nest Staff Writer

Disastrous Mistake #1

Parents allow the child to move back home so the child can avoid the ‘cold cruel world’ in which we all must learn to live. You can help you child. You can’t save your child.

Disastrous Mistake #2

Parents turn a blind eye to the substance abuse problems of an adult child who has recently moved in. Parents should not become enablers, allowing the child to continue unhealthy practices.

Disastrous Mistake #3

Parents don’t discuss the move back home before the child has moved back in. It’s important to understand what the parents’ expectations are before the child is comfortably ensconced in his old bedroom.

Disastrous Mistake #4

Parents don’t insist that the child pay a reasonable rent and contribute to food and utilities. This is a sure-fire way to lower the child’s self-esteem while raising the parents’ blood pressure.

Disastrous Mistake #5

The parents allow the child to disrupt their routine by bringing friends home at all hours of the night, without permission and without any restrictions. Go over the house rules and insist that your child adhere to them.

Disastrous Mistake #6

The parents make no effort to motivate the child to move out. An adult child living at home is fine for a month or two until the child’s life begins to sort itself out. After that, it’s time to get back out there and “make it on your own” as the old song says.

Disastrous Mistake #7

Parents feel sorry for their child who may have recently lost a job or recently-separated from his or her spouse. Recognize that the child is emotionally fragile, but sleeping 14 hours a day and cutting herself off from the rest of the world isn’t healthy for your daughter.

Disastrous Mistake #8

The parents keep their frustration bottled up inside. Find a quiet time when you can talk to your child in an environment that isn’t emotionally charged. Determine if there’s anything you can do to facilitate a job search or apartment search. Feel free to express your concerns in a calm, non-threatening way.

Disastrous Mistake #9

As they always have, parents put the needs of their children before their own. Well, you’ve paid your dues as a parent and it’s time to put yourself first. If your adult child is disrupting your household, make it clear that it stops or he goes. Then, follow through. Don’t allow your child to take center stage in your home. Help out, but no handouts.

Disastrous Mistake #10

And speaking of handouts, don’t loan your live-at-home child money. If the child has a job, she should be paying you! If he doesn’t, that lack of cash will be a real motivator. However, if you’re slipping your kid a twenty to go see a movie, where’s the incentive to be independent and, ultimately, move out!

Do I Have To?: Alternatives to Moving Back Home While Maintaining Your Self-Esteem

June 8th, 2008

Contributed by Back to the Nest Staff Writer

Does the prospect of moving back in with the parents send a shiver down your spine? Do you get lightheaded thinking about a parental curfew even though you’re 34 years old? Do you really want to move back into your old bedroom where your collection of snow globes is still on display? Chances are, moving back in with the folks is the last thing you want to do. But what if you have no choice? Or, what if it’s a choice between the old bedroom and pitching a tent in the local state park?

Throughout history, children have often remained in the family home out of necessity. Each child was another worker around the old family homestead – a hay baler, pig tender, sheep sheerer or stall mucker. There was no stigma attached to living at home – it was expected. And, even after the child got married, husband and wife would often continue living as part of the extended family. If they were lucky, they got a second house on the family property for a little privacy. If not, they continued to live in the main house with no privacy. This was the norm for hundreds of years.

Fast forward to the new millennium. You’re a 28-year-old, up-and coming exec at an IT company. People take direction from you. You make million dollar decisions every day without batting an eye. You’re a big shot – a big shot whose wife just tossed you out of your home and you’re now living out of your office. It’s a nightmare scenario, that’s a fact, but it’s also not at all unusual.

However, even if you had the perfect childhood, and even if you’ve maintained a close, supportive relationship with your parents, once you’ve had a taste of independent living, moving back in with the family is a” less-than-perfect” solution for many adult children. Why?

1. Many children feel they will be a burden on the parents and will disrupt the plans of the parents. It’s tough to sell the house and move to Florida when ‘Junior’ is still living upstairs.

2. Today, there’s shame in moving back home. The move indicates a lack of success on the part of the child, an inability to make it on his or her own. Imagine: you’re at a party, you meet an attractive person and strike up a conversation about your successful career, your volunteer work and your love of puppy dogs. You’re obviously a successful, giving, compassionate human being. However, when the conversation turns to where you live, hmmmm, the picture changes dramatically when you say that you still live at home. That neon ‘Loser” sign on your forehead starts flashing and the conversation ends quickly.

3. Then there’s the question of self-esteem – your self-esteem. A successful adult, one who’s lived an independent life, bought the house, paid the bills, moved up the corporate ladder – will, no doubt, experience a lessening in self-esteem as soon as she moves back home. There are a number of reasons for this:

- Contemporary social mores tell us that adult children, living at home, are wimps, neer-do-wells, lazy, afraid and unable to handle their own problems. (Think Principal Seymour Skinner on The Simpsons.)

- The reaction of friends, coworkers and relatives will be sympathetic, suggesting that there’s something “wrong” with moving home. (Oh, sorry to hear about that, Bob.)

- The adult child, who may be going through a personal crisis, won’t be able to solve his/her problems on their own, admitting to themselves and to the world some of their personal limitations (weaknesses).

- Because the adult child is “right back where she started”, it becomes ever so clear that the child has failed to meet her objectives and expectations. No one likes to take a step backward and moving back home is a giant step backward in the eyes of any mature adult.

The potential loss of self-esteem when an adult moves back in with his parents simply can’t be overstated The loss of confidence, self-respect and a complete reshaping of the child’s self-image are common. Once a high-powered exec, now the ‘12-year-old little boy begin chastised for leaving dirty dishes in the sink’. If that doesn’t shake your confidence, nothing will.

So, when faced with the possibility of a move back home, what other options are available, if any? And, how can you make your stay short and sweet and get back on your feet?

- Ask a very good friend if you can crash at her place until you can find your own place. It may put a strain on even the best of friendships, but you’ll smooth things over once you move out.

- Check the classifieds for ‘roommates wanted’, but be careful, here. A couple of like-minded roomies may work well, but chances are you won’t be thrilled moving in with a bunch of college kids who have keg parties each weekend. Make sure of what you’re getting into before getting in to it.

- Is there another relative better suited to take you in? A favorite aunt with more room? A peer cousin who lives closer to work? Chances are you’ll be able to leave your emotional baggage at the door in this situation. Chances are, you won’t be able to do the same moving in with the parents.

- Can you afford to live in a motel suite? These suites come with a kitchen for cooking and maybe even a living room. And, yes, while it may be depressing as all get-out to be living with a bunch of depressed, recently-separated men and women, at least you won’t have to tell your mom when to expect you home each night.

But, what if these options aren’t available to you – no welcoming cousin, a two-hour commute from your new, shared home. What if you have to move back home? Is there anything you can do to keep a shred of you diminishing dignity? Sure there is.

Ask, don’t assume. Don’t just show up one day with you pet cats. Ask you parents if you can move back in. It shows respect.

Make the stay as short as possible. Start looking for your own place. Read the classifieds and network with friends and associates. Let the world know that you’re looking for your own place.

Pay rent, volunteer and keep your sunny disposition, even if you’re emotionally fragile. Don’t burden your parents with problems that you’ve handled in the past. Parents may want to be supportive, but if you can solve your own problems you’ll leave with your self-esteem in tact.

Take the parents out to dinner – frequently. They’ll enjoy the change and, at least for that evening, you’re the master of your own ship, the captain of your own fate because you’re paying.

Never make things harder on mom and dad. In fact, make them easier. Mow the lawn, fix the patio, make yourself useful so both you and your parents recognize the contributions you’re making.

Accept your limitations at the moment and recognize that these limitations are transitory. You moved back in because you lost your job to downsizing. Hard on the ego, hard on the self-esteem. But recognize that it wasn’t your fault, that you aren’t alone, that it wasn’t personal and that you’ll find another job ASAP. Stay positive throughout the experience.

If you’re feeling worthless, volunteer in your community. Nothing will make you feel better about yourself than selflessly helping others. Even better if you don’t make a big deal about it. Do it for your own self-esteem, not for the praise of others.

Stay busy, keep active. Go to the movies, jog around the neighborhood, meet friends for a nice dinner. The worst thing you can do is to move back home and close yourself off from the world.

Maintain your old routines. Routines provide stability and order in our daily lives and while we may complain about the ’same old same old’, we need routine in our lives for security. Yes, you may be living with your parents but that doesn’t mean you have to go back to eating Coco-Puffs again (unless, of course, you’ve always eaten Coco-Puffs.)

Do one thing every day that has the potential to change your living arrangements. Maybe it’s just looking at the classifieds. Maybe it’s calling about a roommate situation or visiting the local rental agent to start looking at possible apartments or condos that you may one day call home. By doing one thing each day, you’ll have taken 30, individual steps to regain your independence by the end of a month.

Plan ahead. If you know you’re moving into an apartment, start saving as much money as you can each week. Chances are, you’ll have to come up with at least the first and last month’s rent. You don’t want to find the perfect pied-et-terre only to come up short on cash (ugh, and have to ask your parents for a small loan.)

Join a support group. If you’re recently-separated, join a support group for recently-separated people. If you’ve just been laid off, join a support-group for that. It’ll give you the opportunity to express your feelings in a healthy, supportive environment and you’ll quickly discover that there are other people in your exact, same position.

Regardless of how difficult it may be, stay positive. Whatever your circumstances, this, too, shall pass.

The days when children stayed at home to help out on the farm are long gone and society’s view of adult children living at home has changed. But that doesn’t mean you’ve changed. You’re the same person, with the same strengths and talents that you had before you moved back in. The key is to stay focused on your strengths, mitigate your limitations and be pro-active, taking steps to improve your situation. Don’t give in to despair and depression (for long). Keep your identity and keep your sanity. It won’t be long before you’re back on track and back living in your own place, on your own schedule and living by your own rules and, after all, isn’t that your objective? If it isn’t, it sure should be.

Who's The Parent Here? Challenges of a Three-Generation Household

June 8th, 2008

Contributed by Back to the Nest Staff Writer

When I became a parent, I swore I would do things differently than my mother did. I think many of us have made this same vow. We love our parents, but we have first-hand opinions about some of their parenting techniques and think we have a better way. That is one of the perks of being a parent. We can do things our own way. But what happens when you and your children have to move back in with your parents? Putting three generations into one household can present some difficult challenges.

When my son was just over two years old, my husband and I decided to divorce. I tried to make it on my own, but the mound of bills and the difficulties associated with raising a baby while trying to work and go to school eventually led me to move back in with my mother. Her offer of free childcare was hard to resist and I thought that living with Grandma for awhile would be a good experience for my son.

Maintain Proper Roles and Boundaries

For the most part is was a good arrangement. But my mother and I fought frequently over the two issues I said I would do differently when I became a parent; candy and treats, which my mom feels should be doled out liberally and as a means of rewarding good behavior, and over discipline, which my mom believes includes a “good spanking every now and then.” Looking back, I see that the thing that fueled these disagreements was a lack of boundaries and blurred roles. The confusion often led both my mother and I to exclaim, “Who’s the parent here?”

Family counselors stress how important it is for adult children to take full responsibility for all aspects of parenting. I know first-hand how easy it was to let mom take over when I was tired or wanted to spend time with friends. And if my son resisted my attempts to discipline him, I sometimes became frustrated or discouraged and let my mom step in. This created a lack of consistency in parenting roles and led my mother to believe she had just as much say as I did in how my son would be raised. She was doing half of the work. Why shouldn’t she get to make decisions?

Guidelines for Adult Children

As tempting as it may be to let parents pitch in, adult children need to be the primary caregiver of their own children. If you go out with friends, make arrangements with your parents for childcare ahead of time and pay them when you return. If they refuse payment, explain that you appreciate their help but that you need to get used to paying for childcare. If a child needs changing, bathing, supervision, feeding, help with homework, or other attention normally provided by a parent, make sure you are the person who responds. Grandparents can help on occasion, but it should not be a habit or expectation.

Guidelines for Grandparents

On the other side, grandparents need to understand and respect the fact that they are secondary caregivers. A parent has the right to make decisions about how they want to raise their children. This doesn’t change based on living situation. Unless what your adult child is doing is truly harmful or neglectful, it is their role to make parenting decisions. If a grandchild comes to you because they want you to overrule a decision made by his or her parent, you must resist the urge to get involved and explain that Mom or Dad is the one in charge.

If your child seems overwhelmed or lacking in knowledge, offer suggestions or resources, don’t step in and take over. Make it clear from the beginning that you will help out occasionally, but that you do not plan to be a live in babysitter or primary caregiver. This can take patience, tact, and firm adherence to the boundaries. But your children will develop better parenting skills and will be more able to care for your grandchildren when they move back out on their own.

Bringing three generations together in one household can create many interpersonal challenges. Establishing clear boundaries and roles for all involved can help avoid hurt feelings, confusion, and unhealthy dynamics.

Moving Home and Making It Work: New Roles, New Rules

June 8th, 2008

Contributed by Back to the Nest Staff Writer

Whenever an adult child (aka, you) moves back in with his or her parents, it’s tough on everyone – the grown child, the parents, siblings, the family dog – the entire family is affected and must adapt to this new family dynamic. Things will be different, you can bet on that.

Problems can arise quickly. For one thing, chances are you’re moving back home due to some stressful crisis – a divorce, the loss of a job, or flunking out of school are all common reasons why adult children move back home. This means that you’ll, no doubt, be going through a stressful period in your life. Moreover, your parents, who thought their child-rearing days were over, are reminded that “once a parent, always a parent”. Siblings may feel slighted that preferential treatment is being given to one child over the others and the family dog may lose his favorite snoozing spot when you move back in. So, how can the family make this new arrangement work? New roles, new rules – that’s the answer.

New Roles

The parents and the child will assume new roles in this new living arrangement and that, in itself, can be a major source of contention and stress. You’ll always be ‘Daddy’s little girl’ or ‘Mom’s brave, little soldier’ even when your hair is turning gray and arthritis is playing havoc with your back. It’s not easy to redefine these new roles after a lifetime of accepting the traditional parent-child roles. Parents won’t stop parenting and, because of this, it’s likely that you’ll quickly assume the role of the rebellious teenager.

You’re 42 years old, out of the house since you were 18 and Mom wants to know what time you’ll be home that evening. Let’s face it, it’s been a couple of decades since you had to answer to the ‘rents and you’re just not used to. Of course, you’re going to rebel, just in a 42-year-old way instead of an 18-year-old way. Old habits die hard and there are no older habits than the ones created in lifelong relationships.

The keys to success in this new arrangement are accommodation and respect – accommodation for your parents’ needs and desires, and respect for their feelings and opinions – even if they aren’t your opinions. Your attitude will make the difference between a contentious, stressful return to the nest and a warm, comforting atmosphere in which to heal your bruised ego and soul.

Before moving back in, talk with the folks and explain your feelings. It’s much easier to work out your differences before your luggage is sitting in the hallway. Explain why you feel the need to move home. Discuss your concerns openly and honestly.

Elicit your parents’ opinions and concerns. Listen to them carefully and honor them. If your mother is uncomfortable about your new girlfriend sleeping over, end of discussion – no sleepovers. If your dad likes to sleep in, make a note to turn down the volume on the FM in the AM. In fact, take this opportunity to work out a new set of rules to go with your new roles. Again, the time to do this is before you’ve actually moved back in.

New Rules

The new rules will be different for every family and for every situation. For example, if you have a job, agree to throw some money into the pot each month for food, rent and other expenses. On the other hand, if you aren’t working a 9-to-5 job, volunteer to do the shopping, cook the meals or clean the house. It’s important for you to make a contribution every day.

Discuss the rules on visitors. Do your parents want your head banger rock group practicing in the garage? If not, don’t offer the garage as a rehearsal location. The number one rule for you to keep in mind is: accommodate your parents’ needs and respect their wishes. You may not like it, but it comes with the territory when you move back home.

On the other hand, ask your parents to respect you and your current situation. If you’re newly separated, you’re going to be emotionally fragile. Ask for your parents’ understanding and ask them to respect your feelings and your need for privacy. Don’t feel obligated to tell all. It is your life, now, and parents should respect that.

Points for discussion:

Employment

If you don’t have a job, will you be getting one? You know that staying in your old bedroom watching TV all day just won’t sit well for long. If you are unemployed, get a job – and the sooner the better.

Chores

Volunteering goes a long way. Ask your folks if there are things you can do around the house to make things easier for them. Volunteer to take some of the load off. Your parents will appreciate it, and recognize that you aren’t the slacker who used to live there. You’ve grown up.

Drugs and Alcohol

Substance abuse – if you’re trying to cope with a drug or alcohol problem, don’t expect your parents to welcome you home with open arms. That makes them enablers – people who enable you to continue your substance abuse. If that’s a part of the new scenario, then you have to do something about it. It’s not fair to expect your parents to accept drug use in their home, or to tuck you into bed after an all-night bender. A substance abuse problem will make moving home a nightmare for all concerned. Get help or get out.

Money

How much for rent? How much for food? Utilities? Work out the numbers before taking up residence.

Visitors and Guests

When, where, overnight or not?

Curfews

Let’s face it, it’s been a while since you had a curfew and, chances are, you won’t accept one now that you’re an adult. Even so, your parents will worry about you. That’s what parents do – worry about their kids. So, tell your parents where you’re going and when (or if) you’ll be back that evening. They’ll appreciate the courtesy and you won’t be faced with a parent-mandated curfew.

Conflict Resolution

Assume that problems will arise between you and your parents – at least initially. Some parents will actually insist on a written contract before allowing a child to move back in. Not recommended. No contract is going to be worth the paper napkin on which it’s written.

Instead, be willing (eager) to work out differences as they come up. You’re older and wiser than you were 10, 15 or 20 years ago. Be smart and work with those who love you and are offering their help.

The biggest factor in the success or failure of returning home will be your attitude. Not your mom or dad’s attitude – your attitude. Even though it may be difficult (impossible at times), keep a positive attitude around the house. Pitch in, pay some rent, respect the house rules and take steps to keep your stay a short one. The day you move in should be the day you start planning to move out.

Boomerang Kids and Peter Pans: What's a Parent to Do?

June 8th, 2008

Contributed by Back to the Nest Staff Writer

Has your recently separated daughter just moved back in? Is your 28-year old son still living in his bedroom, decorated with high school pennants and posters of Phish? Well, if so, you’re living with a boomerang kid or a Peter Pan and, in either case, you have to know just what you’re up against and how to make things work for both you and your adult child who now calls home – home!

Boomerang Kids

Boomerang kids, also known as rebound babies, do move out. They may go off to college for four years only to move back in after graduation. They may move out, get a job and even get married. However, when the marriage starts to fall apart, they show up on your doorstep, luggage in hand, looking for the comfort and support mom and dad always deliver. Oh, and they’re also looking for a place to stay “just for a while, until I can get my life sorted out.”

The phenomenon of boomerang kids isn’t all that new. In the past, children often went off to college, only to return home for a month or two until they could find an apartment and land that entry-level job. The problem today? Boomerang kids tend to stick around for more than ‘a while’. Some stick around for months and years, putting a crimp in your treasured ‘empty nest’ lifestyle and sometimes throwing the household into chaos

Boomerang kids often move back because they have no other choice. They’re unable to support themselves, they just lost a job or they’re going through a personal crisis and going home is their only option. And with them comes new problems for parents. How to adapt to this new living situation isn’t always easy. Parents simply don’t know how to handle those children who have lived independent lives but now have chosen or been forced to give up their independence. However, because these adult children have had real world experience, they at least have the basic skills for independent living. The same can’t be said for all of the Peter Pans who have simply refused to grow up.

Peter Pans

Peter Pans never left home. They graduated from high school, attended a commuter collage or vocational school and, maybe, even have a good job. The only problem is, they’re still living upstairs in the same room they’ve lived in all of their lives.

These young adults don’t come with a crisis in tow because they never left! That, in itself, presents a crisis for both parents and child. Because these kids have always had mom and/or dad upon whom they could rely, often these kids lack the basic skills for independent living needed to survive in the real world. They don’t know how to balance a checkbook, how to budget money, cook, shop, clean – all of the things that most adults learn when they move into their own apartments or condos.

At some point, these “I don’t want to grow up” children will have to acquire these skills. But what about the emotional bond – the one that has kept them from moving out in the first place.

Different Needs

Adult children who move back in are most likely in crisis. They’ve been laid off. They’ve flunked out of school. They’re in the midst of a divorce. In many cases, they don’t want to be living back at home and will take steps to make the stay a short one.

Not so for the Peter Pan generation. This group simply never grew up. They often lack the emotional strength and self-confidence to try living on their own. They’ve come to rely on the parents for routine functions like meal preparation, laundry and paying the monthly bills. It isn’t at all unusual for these perpetual teenagers to turn over their paychecks to mom or dad so the parents can pay the child’s bills.

Thus, the needs of boomerang kids and Peter Pans are usually distinctly different. In one case, the child has moved in because she has no choice. In the other, the child never moved out because they lack the skills, confidence and self-esteem required to take the plunge. So, what’s a parent to do?

Coping Strategies

Parents faced with the prospect of a boomerang child moving back home, or parents who are now living with a Peter Pan must approach their individual situations differently because of the different circumstances surrounding the adult child’s living situation.

Coping with a Boomerang Child.

1. Assess the need for the child to move back home. Is it essential? Are there other options? You can say ‘no’ if you feel the move back home would be unhealthy for you, the child or other family members still living at home.

2. If you determine that it would be in the best interest of the entire family, work out a set of guidelines before the child moves back home. Specifically:

- How long will the child be living with you?
- Will the child pay rent and other expenses?
- Does the adult child want to move back home or is it simply a panic reaction?
- Is the child willing to live by your house rules?
- Can you trust the child to keep his/her word?
- Can you and the rest of the family adjust comfortably to the new living arrangements?
- Is your child expected to receive counseling during this difficult time?
- Will your child be moving in alone or are their grandchildren involved?
- Are you willing to make sacrifices to accommodate your child?
- Is there room in the home to make the situation bearable?

3. Be supportive and sympathetic to the plight of your child. If you don’t think you can do this, don’t allow the child to move back in. It will only lead to problems for your family and for the adult child.

4. Be prepared to ask the child to leave. This may be extremely difficult, but you must be willing to accept, at the outset, that this new arrangement isn’t working.

5. Ask your child how s/he plans to resolve the situation quickly. Put a time limit on how long the child will be able to stay – 3 months – 6 months depending on the situation. Make sure your child sticks to the program.

Coping With a Peter Pan

1. If your child is still attending school, then living at home may just be a money-saving convenience, something that will go away by itself when the child graduates.

2. How old is the child? If we’re talking about a 21-year old individual, the problem may not be too serious. However, by the time the child reaches 25, you aren’t doing her any favors by letting her live at home. Time to move out and learn to live independently. The last thing you want to become is an enabler – someone who helps support unhealthy behaviors. In fact, you may be doing your child a favor by forcing her to leave. It’s tough love at its purest.

3. Does the child contribute around the house by doing errands, paying rent or buying food? If not, the problem should be viewed as serious and professional help may be in order.

4. Can you help your child find a “better” living arrangement? Moving into a new apartment often requires that the first and last month’s rent be paid in advance – on top of a security deposit. This can add up to several thousand dollars. If money is the only thing keeping your child from moving out, perhaps a small loan from the parents will ease the transition from Peter Pan to an independent adult.

5. Is the child abusing drugs or alcohol? If so, you are an enabler, enabling the child to continue these unhealthy practices. As hard as it may be, you must ask the child to leave for his/her sake and for the sake of the other members of the family.

6. Discuss with the child the reasons why s/he hasn’t moved out. In some cases, it’s nothing more than the prospect of living alone. In this case, help the child find a roommate situation to eliminate living alone and to keep those monthly living expenses down.

7. Examine your own motives for allowing the child to remain at home. Are you protecting the child from the real world? Do you simply enjoy having your child around? It will be much more difficult to motivate a Peter Pan to assume independent living if the parents are reluctant to see the child leave.

Whether we’re talking about a boomerang kid or a Peter Pan, it takes at least two parties for the situation to exist – the child and the parent(s). You may honestly believe that you’re helping your child when, in fact, you’re doing just the opposite. A child reluctant to take his or her place in the world is a child who lacks confidence and/or self-esteem. And, while it may be the hardest thing you’ve ever done, tough love – forcing the adult child from the safety of home – may also be the nudge the child needs to see that he or she can survive and succeed in the real world.

What Bugs Me About Home Based Business Opportunities

March 15th, 2008

I’m beginning to think that most of the home-based business opportunities out there use the same “sales letter” template. You know the kind: you scroll down for 10 minutes and read huge sized fonts of text on this exciting home based business opportunity. You see pictures of “real people” with testimonials of how wonderful their lives have become because of the opportunity. Then you come down to the “time sensitive” sign up form.

This article is fifth in a series of five articles on what to watch out for in home based business “opportunities”. Read all articles in this topic here.

You know what bugs me the most about 99% of these home based business opportunities?

I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT PRODUCT THEY’RE SELLING!

I just spent 10 minutes looking at a home based business opportunity website. It has the stereotypical components I listed above. I scrolled. I clicked on testimonial audio clips. I went to the site map. I still don’t know what the product is in this business. I mean, besides the “product” of selling the home business opportunity to a new member.

I’m always suspicious of any home business opportunity that focuses on how great “the system” is. Here’s the deal: businesses make money by providing a product or a service. When you and I go to a store and shell out money, we expect to walk out of that store with their stuff (ex. “groceries”) in exchange for our stuff (ex. “cash”). This is not rocket science. I don’t care about how great the “system” is at the grocery store – I just know the system works when I spend money to buy something. The only time I would care about “the system” is if the system IS the product.

Why is it always this difficult to figure out from these online home based business opportunity websites just what exactly I am buying?

I have little sympathy for sellers of these opportunities who point figures at “skeptics” and how they shouldn’t judge a business before trying it out. That’s the entire scope of the problem – I have no idea what the business even is, and in order for me to make an educated guess about it, I have to spend money to know what it is.

Hobby or Serious Business? An eBay Seller Shows the Dilemma

March 10th, 2008

When Perri Capell of the Wall Street Journal thought of the possibility of making $10,000 a month from eBay, she was hooked with the idea.

Actually, Capell read a copy of “The 100 Best Things I’ve Sold on eBay,” by Lynn Dralle. Dralle’s book talked of “spending almost nothing and making as much as $10,000 monthly.”

After a year of trying to make money selling on eBay and turning her house into an auction storage, Capell learned some lessons on the facts and fuction of making her worth from eBay.

This article is fourth in a series of five articles on what to watch out for in home based business “opportunities”. Read all articles in this topic here.

Lesson 1: It gets more complicated.
Using eBay as a hobby to sell trinkets or clothes you no longer wear is easy. Creating a business from your eBay store can only get complicated, at least as complicated as running an actual business.

Don’t forget to log your time spent rummaging through yard sales and driving yourself from flea market to flea market when you are crunching the numbers for your business’ break-even point.

At the end of the year, Capell calculated that she made only $136 a month in profit. A far cry from the $10,000 a month that some claim you can make. Capell decided that her eBay business was taking too much time and effort for a hobby, but not generating enough revenue as a serious business. Read the rest of this entry »

MLM Watch from the Creator of Quackwatch

March 5th, 2008

MLM Watch” comes from the creator of Quackwatch.org and is a good resource for those who are considering home based businesses with a multilevel marketing (MLM) model.

This article is third in a series of five articles on what to watch out for in home based business “opportunities”. Read all articles in this topic here.

MLM Watch also links to another investigative website called “Truth on MLM or Network Marketing” that contains a wealth of information on how you can evaluate a multilevel marketing program.

At first I was surprised that Dr. Stephen Barrett, founder of Quackwatch would create MLM Watch. However, given how many of these MLMs deal with health related products, and how some of these companies make exaggerated claims about what their products can do, it makes complete sense why Dr. Barrett would create MLM Watch.

Start by reading Dr. Barrett’s article on “The Mirage of Multilevel Marketing.” By paragraph 3, you’ll read the crux of why MLM is so attractive to the masses – and why many MLM is the toughest business anyone can get into: “Becoming an MLM distributor is simple and requires no real knowledge of health or nutrition.”

I may be biased toward the value of formal education as a foundation to sustained survival in society. I agree that there are people without formal education who have become multimillionaires on perseverance alone. Even Bill Gates dropped out of Harvard to create Microsoft (then again, he dropped out of Harvard).

If you are engaged in a business that requires no real knowledge about an area, that means you are in the fiercest, most competitive business of all. Even with failings of current educational systems, it offers information that enterprising individuals can turn into knowledge for their competitive advantage. Read the rest of this entry »

Home Based Business Reselling Domains and Hosting

February 29th, 2008

Buying website top level domain (TLD) names and setting up a website is easier than ever. This has created a home-based business opportunity to resell domain names and provide webhosting service.

This article is second in a series of five articles on what to watch out for in home based business “opportunities”. Read all articles in this topic here.

Godaddy.com has a basic reseller plan for $99/year for people who want to become domain resellers. Rumor has it that Godaddy.com emails the customers of its resellers with more attractive offers – that would seem quite stupid for Godaddy.com unless it is more profitable for Godaddy.com to sell directly to end users than to sell its reseller plans.

First: Is signing up for an existing domain reselling plan worthy as a business opportunity or does it make more sense to create your own reselling business? Since Godaddy.com has become a domain registration market leader, I’ll use this company as an example. Please note, however, that enom is another domain reselling provider that has been in business for a long time and offers similar services.

can you make money with reselling domains with Godaddy.com?

discussion thread about this

Here are some discussion threads about Godaddy.com Reseller Plans:

domain reseller programs

a bit dated but may be relevant

Jeff Goldman wrote an article about Godaddy.com history and its reseller programs.

What About Other TLD Reseller Business Models?

I learned about Global Domains International from a social networking site member profile. The business model is multilevel marketing (MLM) or pyramid scheme, which in itself is technically not illegal if the business sells a product (.ws domain names and website services).The domain suffix is based on Western Samoa; see the independent marketing affiliate agreement here .

For $10/month, you can get into GDI’s affiliate business, and you recruit 5 additional people to join as your “downline.” These 5 people then recruit an additional 5 people.

The company’s main website, http://website.ws/ allows you to search for and buy .ws top level domains (TLD) and web hosting services. This set up looks vaguely like Godaddy.com, which I use to register almost all of my domains. Since Godaddy.com is offering reseller plans for $99/year at a basic level, I wonder how this stacks up as a potential competitor to GDI, given you can resell all top level domains and not only a rather obscure .ws domain name.

Godaddy.com’s basic domain reselling plan looks cheaper than GDI’s $120/year ($10/month * 12 months/year) but offers no “business training” that GDI affiliates seem to rave about. Godaddy.com’s reseller plans offer reseller support, but this is not a MLM business model, which means you are not encouraged to or incentivized on recruiting of new resellers.

A very informative message thread I’ve found on Global Domains International or GDI comes from Daniweb.com forums. There are people who are current GDI affiliates, people who think GDI is a scam, and people who are checking GDI out as a business opportunity. Pay close attention to posts by Graham from Australia, who had personal experiences with GDI, seemed pleased with the company, then by June 22 of 2005 terminated his relationship with GDI because his calculations showed that the amount of time he was spending was not giving him the returns he wanted (he was “in the red”).

The forum thread also pointed out that GDI’s flagship website (website.ws) has received numerous complaints with the Better Business Bureau. There were 12 complaints received within the last 3 years (36 months). Read about this here.

© 2007 by Jane Chin, All Rights Reserved.

Conflicts of Interest Disclosure: Global Domains International – no affiliation or financial conflicts of interest. Godaddy.com – customer of domain registration services; no affilication or financial conflicts of interest. Enom.com – no affiliation or financial conflicts of interest.

Is This Home Based Business a Scam?

February 26th, 2008

When we look at the increasing number of people who have to stay home and take care of their families, it’s no wonder that we will continue to see an explosion of home based businesses. Accompanying this is naturally a slew of “business opportunities”.

This article is first in a series of five articles on what to watch out for in home based business “opportunities”. Read all articles in this topic here.

Sometimes we really want to believe that we can make thousands of dollars a week working from home. We are bombarded with “home based business” opportunities that promise to free us from the chains of employment. Many of these home based biz opps offers shower us with praises and tell us that we are just as smart as folks who are millionaires but we just need the “right” opportunities or business model.

Unfortunately these home based business opportunities are NOT the right opportunities or business models to help us become millionaires, either.

The truth is, what some of these home based biz opportunities master is the art of seduction. Some are masters of psychological manipulation. First, you are asked to dream your dreams so you can become highly suggestive. Then you are asked to fully experience or feel how you would feel if these dreams came true. Finally, you are given the home based business opportunities as the answer or solution to get you these dreams. A crude level of neurolinguistic programming.

Would you buy a business model that shows you a person chained to the computer 16 hours a day, or a person who is rejected time and again from potential buyers or affiliate recruits? Of course not. We picture that as a job, and probably an unsavory one. This is why home based business opportunity ads and sales pitches show you pictures of dreams and money, and favor pictures of sunny beaches.

Most home based businesses take work. A Lot of Work. Some of these home based business opps can be as much work as getting 2 full time jobs – but without vacations and health benefits. I know, this doesn’t sound as glamorous as promises of owning your dream home and taking vacations in exotic places several times a year.

Home based businesses can work for you if you fully acknowledge that you are operating a business and accept all the obligations and work that comes with being a business owner.

A good place to start when you are prospecting a home based business opportunity is with Better Business Bureau and do a search under the category of Business and Professional Services > Business Opportunities.

© 2007 by Jane Chin, All Rights Reserved.

Conflicts of Interest Disclosure: No affiliation or financial conflicts of interest with the Better Business Bureau.

Caregivers Must Care For Themselves First

November 28th, 2007

Dave Balch became his wife’s primary caregiver when she was diagnosed with breast cancer. The 59 year old found himself struggling with fatigue and mood swings and juggling full time caregiving with his regular work as a software developer. According to The Informed Patient, there are now about 45 million caregivers of loved ones who suffer from chronic and devastating illnesses like cancer, Alzheimer’s, and Parkinson’s disease. There are also high rates of depression and stress in caregivers. This makes resources for caregivers more critical than ever before, including counseling, skills training, support groups, and help when juggling care responsibilities.

Resources for caregivers include:
• National Family Caregivers Association
Tips and guides for family caregivers, information on agencies and organizations that provide caregiver support

• National Alliance for Caregiving
Conducts research, offers Lotsa Helping Hands online calendar to schedule family and friends for help in time slots requested by caregiver

• Family Caregiver Alliance
Links to caregiver resources by state; alerts on policy initiatives to aid caregivers

• Respite.org
Links to programs that offer temporary paid or volunteer care services to give caregivers time off

• AARP
Guide to caregiving; message boards for caregivers

A Career in Art

November 9th, 2007

Days of the “starving artist” are gone! Now artists can explore a wealth of creative careers. The best places for exploring an art career are not surprisingly art programs at colleges and universities. Art Schools have a vested interest in helping their students find satisfying careers.

University Art Program Career Services

University of North Carolina Wilmington’s Student Affairs Career Services page lists over 100 careers that artists can consider. KinderArt Art Speak goes one step farther and lists over 200 careers under the aptly titled, “What can you do with an art degree?

State University of New York (SUNY) Oswego has more descriptive pages about artistic careers, including advertising, architecture, art therapy, fashion, film, television, graphic design, industrial design, museums, photography, publication design, teaching, fine art, and theatre.

Professor Dennis Staffne at the Department of Art and Design of Northern Michigan University has compiled a comprehensive career resource for art students.

The School of the Art Institute of Chicago, considered one of the best art schools in the United States, offers both its students and the artistic public career resources and development guides. Tips range from how to create an artist statement to interviewing for a job to relocating to another city for work.

Explore Art Careers

An “Art Career” is broad and encompassing. If you are an aspiring artist, you may have thought of your art career in terms of the specialty or niche that you are pursuing, for example:

Art education career or Art teacher career
Visual art career

Art history career
Graphic art career
Art therapy career
Computer art career or Game art and design career
Art gallery career

Art director career
Fine art career
Commercial art career
Art buyer career

You can further refine your search in an art career niche.

How Much Do Artists Make?

Salaries for designers can range from $25,000 to $80,000 (in fact this was the pay range for interior design). Other types of designers such as web designers may get paid anywhere from $45,000 to over $100,000. Salaries with the smallest range of pay include set designers ($30,000 to $55,000), graphic Designers ($35,000 to $55,000), fashion designers $30,000 to $55,000), and floral designers ($30,000 to $55,000).

Artist Organizations and Communities

UK has an organization called The Artists Information Company that aims to “expose the diversity and complexity of artists’ practice” to inspire research, analysis, and debate on artists’ practices.

Art Daily was established in 1996 as the “First Art Newspaper on the Net.” Editor & Publisher Ignacio Villarreal first published Museos, a print magazine for artists before founding Art Daily. Although Art Daily was launched in 1996, this work spans over 44 years of communicating art. Focuses on fine art and museums.

College Art Association was founded in 1911 and has a career development section that provides articles and guidance for both job seekers and employers, as well as links to other art related organizations.

Artist Career Resources on the Web

Sylvia White’s Art Advice offers articles for artists who want to manage their art careers with as much business savvy as artistic creativity. Articles are categorized under Professional Practices (such as pricing, renting galleries, checklists, marketing and sales), Gallery Relationships (such as selecting the right galleries), The Art of Being An Artist, and Tips for Collectors. Highly Recommended!

Chris Maher is an artist, writer, and web designer who has put together a resource website to help artists leverage the power of the web to sell their art online. I found Chris’ article on Image Security (i.e. how to deter people from stealing your online images) relevant not only for artists but for those of us who may share online galleries, photographs, and graphics.

Artistic Aspirations Newsletter Volume 1 Issue 8

August 24th, 2007

Welcome to the August 28, 2007 edition of Artistic Aspirations, based on our carnival of art career development.

artThailand wrote Nice introduction to art and specifically, to Thai art.

I did not know the reason that Baskin Robins painted their stores pink is to make vanilla ice cream taste sweeter – and don’t understand the logic behind Fedex painting their planes’ tail tips purple so the plane would be “lighter”, but Mitesh’s color theory article touches upon a fascinating subject.

Harriett suggests that to to Set Youself Apart From The Pack and get ahead in the art game, you may consider Constantly honing your skills, Educating yourself in marketing of some sort, Using the resources of the Internet, Using your library, Getting to know other artists, and Getting out of your comfort zone.

This concludes this edition. Submit your blog article to the next edition of carnival of art career development using our carnival submission form. Past posts and future hosts can be found on our blog carnival index page.

Artistic Aspirations Newsletter Volume 1 Issue 7

August 6th, 2007

Welcome to this issue of the Artistic Aspirations Newsletter! Here are a couple of paintings I did in July and August – click for link to the full size (located outside this blog):
Sunflower Sunflower
I mix the different colors using the three primary colors of red, blue, and yellow.

Ryan Haigh shares three links to help aspiring artists get their foot in the door and gain Recognition and Respect. These sites are: Coroflot (the biggest communities for college student portfolios), 5oup, and Creative Binge (where users can vote on pieces of work in an artist’s profile). These sites seem geared for emergent artists and particularly the college student artist population, suggesting that it’s never too early to start working on gaining recognition for your name and your work.

Ming “sells luxury cars because it’s a real job, does graphic design because people pay him alot of money to do it, and makes art because if he doesn’t, then nothing else matters.” He shares 7 ways to squeeze art making time into your daily life, which are: 1. Keep a sketch book; 2. Wake up early; 3. Paint during your lunch break; 4. Paint in your car (I’m not too sure about this one, for safety reasons…); 5. Create a painting trap in a high traffic area in your home; 6. Designate an art day; and 7. Turn your bathroom into a makeshift studio.

Josiah Redding’s comprehensive article on How to Start Your Music Career is both eye opening and informative. Joshiah even begins the article with a “reality check” by including a section whose purpose is “to discourage you from even trying to start a music career.” Contrarian – I love it.

If you want to quit your status as a “starving artist”, Moorea has 4 tricks to help you get there. These tricks are: Stop “Big Break” Thinking, Have at least one almost “regular” form of income, Hold Tight to Your Values, and Charge What You’re Worth.

Thank you all for submitting to this edition of the artist career carnival. Submit your blog article to the next edition here.

Artistic Aspirations Newsletter Volume 1 Issue 6

May 29th, 2007

Welcome to the May 29, 2007 edition of carnival of art career development.

Art Careers

Kathryn presents You know you’re from San Francisco when… “Explore the world of a working artist with this interview of photograper S.N. Jacobson.”

artThailand presents artThailand: We Put The World Of Contemporary Art From Thailand Within Reach. “Widely travelled, with exposure to many different styles of contemporary art, Vichian Boonmeemak returned to Thailand a few years ago and now splits his time between the island of Samui and the beautiful town of Lom Sak, in the Petchabun province. His work is highly symbolic, heavily influenced by the abstract expressionist movement and representative of the Dhamma path to enlightenment, or Nirvana. Make no mistake, this is no ordinary Buddhist. Vichian is a highly talented, experienced and colorful artist.”

Artist Wisdom

Susan Borgas presents Hints for Staying Focused. “Staying focused in your work isn’t always easy, especially if there is a daunting amount of work to do over a period of a year and the next and so on. Time management is so important to stay focused on what needs to be done. This is how I try to stay focused and for the most part it does work.”

Christine Kane presents Doubt is a Drag Queen.

Career Advice

Arun presents Charm your way to Success. “Here are some communication tips to help you succeed in getting your next job!”

That concludes this edition. Submit your blog article to the next edition of carnival of art career development using our carnival submission form. Past posts and future hosts can be found on our blog carnival index page.